有爱的地方才是家 | Home is where love is

失落时,家是避风的港湾;迷茫时,家是永远的航灯。珍惜别人给予的爱,才会更懂得爱,才会让爱迸发出强大力量,支撐你走过人生一道又一道的坎坷。愛,絕對不能夾雜著煩惱,因為有煩惱就會有汙染。要培養一份清淨無染的愛。在感情上不要有得失心,不要想收回,就不會有煩惱。有所求的愛,是無法永久存在的。能夠永久存在的,就是那份無形、無染而無求的愛。父母過分愛子女的心會反射成子女的煩惱,對子女要放心,他們才能安心。家,不是食物豐盛就快樂,也不是用品奢侈就幸福,能寬心敞懷,多理解,少計較,溫馨相處,如此,便好。

When we are feeling down, home is our refuge. When we are lost, home will always be our guiding beacon. Treasure others’ love and we will know how to love. This greater capacity to love will help us hurdle life’s obstacles. Yet do not let love be infused with afflictions as it will be contaminated. We have to cultivate pure compassionate love with no pollution by afflictions. Do not expect reciprocity and our love will be free from afflictions. If one loves with conditions, this love is fleeting. Everlasting compassionate love is formless, pure and free from conditions. Parents’ overwhelming love for their children in fact may cause more problems for them. Learn to detach parental love and the children will feel more at ease. A happy home is not about abundance of food and luxuries. It is about a feeling of ease and contentment, understanding and free from disputes, and sense of heartwarming. If so, all’s well.

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